I figured I need to start a new thread with a different title as the other title seems a bit harsh now. Think this is my 4th thread here.

The last page to my most recent thread.

Reader’s Digest – Married for 32 years and had a great marriage until W put us in deep debt. I got angry and couldn’t get over it and held a lot of resentment towards my wife for years until she couldn’t take it anymore and walked out. It opened my eyes how badly I was treating her and I realized how deeply I was in love with her and like most LBS I vowed to change myself for the better. About a month ago we had a spousal support hearing and I got slammed by the judge. My W used a lot of my DB techniques against me in her affidavit. I highly doubt the judge used any for her judgement. I was emotionally crushed by what my W did but after talking with her I understood she was following her attorney’s instructions. I have forgiven my wife.


M 55 W 52
MR 32 T 34+
D29
BD May 8, 2016 - She moved out
ILYBNILWY May 15 (Through email)
No EA/PA
August 23 - DB used against me in every way
Divorce July 18, 2017 - Life is getting better every day