Jim!!!!!!!!!!! Breathe and focus on you and your boys. This is a knee jerk reaction to her not "coming to her senses". Tell me how this benefits the boys. They can tell their mommy has been distant even when with them. You have been their stable point and are about to undue that stability you formed by moving. Then why fight at all??? At this point it is no longer about You or her...it is about the boys and sorry to tell you this but a mom like your Ex is not going to aid in their development. She is all about her..you are all about her..WHO is all about the boys?? As a mom to 4boys i will tell you there is no way in hell> I could fathom moving to a different country and being ok with seeing them once a month. Please take a step back and let go Let her go. Be the lighthouse for the boys. Do not keep moving them around. Stand up for them. Why move them destabilize them.. all to end up with a woman who has not shown much interest in them. Why cause them that pain
