Jim I really hope you will answer painters question as I, and I'm pretty sure others here don't get that either. Please help us understand - and help yourself try to find some clarity by explaining how these are both good ideas.
DonH Midwest Me 56 WAW-EXW 55 Met 11/95 / Married 5/00 Bomb 6/20/05 / She Filed on 6/2/06 / Divorced on 10/9/06 4 who'd qualify as GF since D & dated about 25 women since D