New and need help.

[RBG80]

Rose - thats just the problem, whilst I appreciate its not healthy, being with someone is all I know and want (I'm no good on my own). I have no real hobbies and my ideal day would be spent with my family (W&S). This will have to be a completely new chapter where everything will be breaking out of my comfort zone!

Cadet - You're right in what you say there, this is going against everything I've ever known. I've always been a family man (as was my Dad until we lost my Mom). I just don't know what efforts I need to make, when and who with.

I guess a lot of guys on this forum deal with the same issues over and over until things finally hit home... Appreciate the patience guys, so where do you suggest I go from here?...