I think you are going to have To explain that as I don't get it. If you're saying I'm playing it safe, I'm not the one hesitating - she is. I just can sort of understand why. People here are afraid to go on a local date. Imagine not having dated in 25+ years and considering spending a weekend with someone you are just getting to know. So I can understand her hesitance. I on the other hand would do it.
Was that your point? If not, perhaps you can elaborate.
DonH Midwest Me 56 WAW-EXW 55 Met 11/95 / Married 5/00 Bomb 6/20/05 / She Filed on 6/2/06 / Divorced on 10/9/06 4 who'd qualify as GF since D & dated about 25 women since D