Maybs - Pt 4 - where to now?

[Cherry]

Maybs, you are doing great all things considered. You are totally entitled to take a bit of the day to have a pity party, you did so well not to wallow and stick in that place. Keep moving forward.

You do so well at not reacting to the tantrums, the things she says are absolute script. My wh too has told me that I seem to be doing well. And the I love you but we are just better apart. This is the things they tell themselves. I also think you did the right thing telling her how you felt. That way, you have no doubts, no regrets, no "gee if I had only said this".

I'm glad you have in laws that have a great r with you, that's really great that despite things, they see that she is acting wildly out of character and that you have done no wrong and continue to see you as family.

But yes, the history rewrite is unbelievable, and hurtful. And Sara, in their culture it is truly frowned upon to marry someone outside of it. I'm just ethnically different from him, I was raised as a Muslim with a Muslim and a catholic parent. And even though I was Muslim, I was still frowned upon by others as I'm Latin and he's Asian. So I know full well, there is no mistake in our m's being a mistake or them not living us. They have to be pretty tough to stand in front of family and communities and say, this is the woman I will marry.