I'm going to cancel the MC. She just texted me that she was going to the diner to help her buddy to prepare for some evaluation he had at work. I'm done.
What do I do now? It's clear what's happening. She wants to go to a mediator so she can end this asap.
Follow Sandi's rules. She doesn't get to dictate the timeline of this. Nobody can force you to do anything you don't want to do. Slow the process down. Make yourself less available. Follow the rules. 180, detach, all that good stuff. I won't repeat them here, you can read them on their posted thread.
