Equally, just two days before, she was very adamant that we we're going to have sex (not that this was a hardship mind), but surely if you'd fallen out of love with someone you wouldn't chose to be physically intimate with that person would you?....
RBG80,
That goes back to "don't believe anything she says..."
I remember when I first came to this forum and I asked a question similar to yours and Cadet responded, "Why would you believe anything she says?" And that sums it up. Unfortunately, the rewrite history and actually seem to believe a lot of it themselves.
I think the roller coaster metaphor is perfect; she's on a roller coaster ride and you can chose to go on the ride with her or you can chose to get off and do your own thing while she rides. It's much easier said than done, but for this particular ride, it's a lot better to be a casual observer than it is to be a participant.
