Thanks Andrew. I believe it's the same in my case too. Everything is so they don't feel guilty and can justify their behavior. I was confused prior to her moving out with calling me a "monster". "You ruined my life" just like I read in an earlier thread. No incident had even happened. She was citing things from a decade ago. But, that gave her justification and made me the bad guy. How long can this go on? Rhetorical.

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