Cessna - I think at least in my case that my W wants me to do the dirty work and be the "bad" one. There's also the confusion and depression that keeps them from acting.

In the reading there's a bit about this where it's common for the MLCer to say that they want a D and then if the LBS gets fed up enough to initiate it they then drag their feet.

It's part of the "script" I suppose, or just an other loop on the roller-coaster.

On BD
H52, W50
T27, M26
S21, D23
BD-9-Mar-16
D-15-Jan-18 Final-19-Apr-18
I am a storyteller. The story may do you no good.
But a story is never for the listener. It is always for the one who tells