I notice that most people on here seem to date things from BD. But by the time of bomb drop, it is likely the husband is already in the replay stage. They say mlc takes 2-7 years to run its course, but looking back, how long would you say the spouse was in the Denial and Anger stages? Are people normally including those when they talk about 2-7 years or does 2-7 years start with BD?

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