And that brings me to a funny story I may have told. About a year after the separation, I was watching TV and I get a collect call from Atlantic County Correction Facility from "BOB" asking if I would accept the call. I told my coworker about this the next day, and I said to her " I know I've been asking God to send me a guy, but I think he misunderstood!" She was very religious and seriously said "That was probably your chance, Ginger, and you missed it! He repented for his sins and God sent him to you!"