@SH_: thanks for the encouraging words,I believe the karma will do her job. Determined to live my life. With or without W.
@Zues126:
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Are there any plans to separate, or are you going to leave it up to her to take that action?
I decided long time ago that I will not help her in separation, so all plans are her's, and I am letting her do the work. So if she wants to separate - be my guest, find a place to live. If she wants divorce - fine with me, but I will not help. Since during relationship and marriage I was the one who did most if not all the hard work, I am not doing this - hardest - instead of her. She wants it - I am letting her to make it possible. I am not doing it for her.
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One solution that would solve BOTH problems would be to go to text/email only regarding anything regarding anything more than 'hello'. Email/text is great
I will stick to text whenever possible but... she is still living in same household, and contact is unavoidable. Sometimes she starts talks and it is not always possible to get away-
Me38,W36,D9 M 10y, R 14y
10/11/2015 wants to leave 25/12/2015 definitely wants to leave, makes plans Jan 2016 started DBing Feb 2016 sleeping in separate rooms Sep 2016 sleeping in same room