Another thing - now when the court didn't give her what she wanted, perhaps she will change her mind down the road. If it were me, I would give her time to think about her situation, feel what it's like to live like this, struggle with the distance, and then you can reevaluate in a year if she has not changed. I have a feeling you will not be so eager to move then, but who knows.

If you intervene now, I think you'll take away her opportunity to develop. Does that make sense?


M 16 yrs, WH62, P54
3 adult blended kids
EA 11/13, BD1 6/14
PA fall 14, BD2 2/15
Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15
Separated 4/16
WH moved OW in 5/16
Divorced 6/15/17