Wow, thanks Cadet - there is a lot of information here which I've had a quick look over (and will read in more depth).

Just so that I am sure, I am to keep to this thread (or commenting on other Newcomer threads) only until i hit 100 posts?...

Would love to hear from others in the same situation or people who have broken through to the other side.

M - 36 / W - 32
S - 3
Together - 18 Yrs / Married - 10 Yrs
Bomb Dropped - 4th Sept 2016
Moved out - 4th Sept 2016