Hi Feyth, the early formula I came up with was we take our total assets. Then we each take what we came in with and we split the rest 50/50. XH suggested various things and I used to get anxious whenever I stood up for my own interests.

However, in my mind I also felt I didn't want to get cheated on and screwed over in a settlement. So I quietly stood my ground, worked through my L and ours was a low conflict and polite D.

Glad you had a good time at the bowling Sweetie xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus