Gump, we are in the same apartment. It was suggested to me by my therapist. It has worked out ok for me as I see the value in the kids not being uprooted every couple of days.. At this point I have given up on trying to control her. I have decided to just let her go and figure herself out. If she is lucky enough to do that before I choose to move on, maybe we can work this out. My mindset is changing and I have more and more thoughts about just giving up and pursuing divorce. I have made great strides in changing myself over this ordeal and I am extremely proud of that and if nothing else, I leave this a better father and man!