Is it normal, while applying Sandi's 37 rules, for the spouse to turn angry? I've been working on myself, both physically and mentally, while trying to work on my relationship with may daughter. I've been nothing but pleasant towards my wife. Is she pissed off because I'm not crouched up into a ball in the fetal position lying on the floor?

The last few days I've decided that I truly love her and I want this to work out, but I'm not going to be a pushover.


Me: 46, WAW/WW:44
Kids-D 12y/o
T: 20
M: 15
BD: 9-20-16