Yeah the ow I've seen is the opposite to what he likes, and he's a fan of natural beauty, she has a face CAKED in the stuff, ridiculous eyebrows. And like you, I'm not vain- but she doesn't hold a candle! This has also been verified by "well doers" at work who have heard rumours, and it's always met with "is he mad?". Though maybe this is part of the issue, he has complained to me, even recently, that everyone at work tells him he is punching above his weight with me. Again, I'm not vain- I thought we were two equals.

That is true, consistency is absolutely the key to me right now. To start with, his moods dictated mine, if he was distant, I would, if he was angry, I'd give him the silent treatment. Now I would like to think I'm calmer, I'm learning what is and isn't my problem. Mood matching is codependent and unhealthy, I understand that now. So I shall give him glimpses at the steady, strong woman that I am. In sha Allah I hope we can smile

Me 26 H 25
M 4
T 5
Baby born 4/14
BD: 1/15
EA: 2/15
PA: 4/15
reconciling: 4/15
ILYBINILWY- 11/15
ILY-1/16
ILYBNILWY 4/16
ILY 6/16
ILYBINILWY 6/16
Baby due 3/17
BD 8/16