When WH and I were actually starting to recover from the A (there was 2 months where OW wasn't there but recovering from surgery) my WH assured me that my pregnant body was NOT a turn off. He said men simply don't care about that, if it's soft and feminine they are HOT. Your WH's issues run waaay deeper than mere appearances. I saw pics of the OW and was struck by how plain and dumpy she looked, I am not vain but frankly I am much more attractive than her. Spouses that cheat are doing it more to fill some hole inisde themselves, they affair down historically.

I watched MWD videos today about the last resort technique and tuned up my DBing. Remember that your most consistent change is the one noticed, even if it's very small. There is no way an AP will match you, you are the mother of his children and no AP can change that. Keep being this wonderful person. One day, Inshallah, you and I will meet and bask in each other's joy and strength.


M 10yrs T 13yrs
BD #1Oct 2015-PA between WAH and COW
BD #2 April 2016-WH resumed PA, she broke it off
Jan 2 2017 WH says he wants divorce
April '17-Letting go
2018 D busted
DD8, DS6, DS3