Oh AND she told me that she thought that if we were to get back together all of the things I'm doing and that changes I'm making would just slowly "trickle away" and things would go back to how they were.
Maybs, the best thing to do is continue to work on yourself and make sure all those changes stick. I find that I slip back into the old NYGal, and I have to stay on top of everything to keep cementing the changes that NYGal 2.0 has become. So it's a process.
BTW, I think the fact that you told W this isn't what you want because you still love her was perfect. Let her think about that when ow shows her true colors and W is wondering wth she did by ending your marriage. Just be the best Maybs you can be and either W will see through the fog, or someone else will. You'll be happy again. And loved and cherished. No doubt.
Hang in there.
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
