Sounds like you are off to a good start. Your actions and mindset sound pretty good for this happening so recently. Hang in there!
- m and ww in 30s - s4 - m 11 yrs, t12 -ilybinilwy ~5/16 + request for OM - bd 7/16, confirm ea and strongly suspected pa - 9/16 ww claimed to have broken contact with om