I feel for you. I have been with my husband for 22 years and we have now been separated for a month. He doesn't want anything to do with me or the life we shared. He has said all of those things that they say in a MLC and none of it makes any sense to me. I am sorry I don't have any advice for you because I still don't understand the situation, but just know that you are not the only one out there suffering.