I don't think anyone can tell what he is thinking, including himself.
Feyth I wish was there was some magic answer, but there can be no insight or observations or breakthrough really. In my case my H is supposedly honest with me now about what he wants and how he's been feeling. Apparently he is "done", he never loved me, he needs to find himself etc etc. Who knows how much of that is true. If he never loved me he sure went to great lengths to show love for 16 years, so that makes him what? A liar? A sociopath? Who knows. I gave up trying to understand what goes on in his head. I'm not where I should be in relation to detachment or GAL, but I know that I cannot believe a word he says, because he doesn't know what's going on in his own head anyway. I guess what I'm trying to say is go with the trusted "believe nothing he says and half of what he does" motto, and just look after yourself xxx
"There's nothing sadder than a conman conning himself"
“There is freedom waiting for you, On the breezes of the sky, And you ask "What if I fall?" Oh but my darling, What if you fly?”
