JK, I fully admit that I have absolutely zero experience as a parent, but I would also urge you to just step back and take a break for a while. There is no need to do anything right now besides take a little time to recover your equilibrium.

Breathe, JK.

((((((((((Jim ))))))))))

H: 44, Me: 45
Married: 20 y Together: 25 y
no kids
Walk away: 12/15
Asked for temp separation 12/25/15
PA confirmed 3/16 (apparently neither the first, nor the last PA he has had)
H filed for D 5/16