help123-- are you & your W sharing the same apartment? Or do each of you have your own apartment? Mainly just curious. That arrangement (share an apartment) has been suggested to me, and I thought I'd find it emotionally impossible to do that.
I don't have any great advice. You can't control your W. She's blowing around in the storm. You can work on finding yourself, and be the best man you know how.
Me: 50, MLC/WW 45 Young kids Nov 2015: BD1 Apr 2016: BD2 Jan 2017: W filed Feb 2017: D final
