Sounds like one heck of a weekend ... stressful. Or at least I would be.

Why do you think your W seeing an IC (the old MC) would be a death knell for your M? I would think that your W working out her issues would make her a better spouse...?

(Still curious about the physiological evaluation mentioned above....)

Me: 50, MLC/WW 45
Young kids
Nov 2015: BD1
Apr 2016: BD2
Jan 2017: W filed
Feb 2017: D final