I am still around. Things have progressed quite a bit since my last post. We are now separated switching out home and apartment between the two of us so kids can stay at main home. we had been talking about this for weeks and finally she acted on it. Within a conversation she told me she was to far gone and them followed it up with but I don't want a divorce. She said she wanted some time so that she figure out if she was doing the right thing..so here we are. This started yesterday..When she told the kids she said we were separating to work on ourselves. Not sure how to take that but I know she needs to work on herself before she can even begin to think about our marriage. Thoughts on all this? I have pretty much just let her go at this point as I truly believe the only way I fix my marriage right now is to do nothing...How to proceed??
