Focus on Me and my Boys 8

[J5K]

Rose,

I guess when we read things on threads that do not always communicate correctly. I do not believe that the two are in conflict. I do belive they are independent of each other. If a person takes stock on the status of their M and can catch things early enough, I agree that it does benefit and support the M or R, thus the bonus is a healthier union between spouses.

The reality for most on this forum though is that we do not realize our M is lost until it is to late, thus making the two items independent of each other. Even if I do become Liam Neeson I may not get my wife back but I might get someone as beautiful as Lady V in the future!