I haven't told her that I love her since she told me she wanted a divorce. I haven't asked her where she is or where she's been. I've acted like a good roommate. I've stayed out of her way and given her space. No badgering or following around. I've been following your 37 rules to a tee.
I realize at this point that there isn't much I can do. She's agreed to go to counseling which is a bit of a surprise considering that week ago she said no way. I can't imagine her mindset going in is going to be "I want to save my marriage". Perhaps she'll have a change of heart. Or not.
I'm doing my best to be a good dad. The rest will follow.
