Hi Coly, I've been thinking about QLC too, as H is so young, my cursory reasearch points to them being very similar in depressive manifestation. I did go to that work thing and it was somewhat of a disaster. People decided to be curious about our apartment (mine now) so that got awkward. Some don't know, some do. H got snippy about a few things, I validated, but yeah, next time will not bring him methinks. OMG the wedding. Sat with 2 psychologists. We get to talking, turns out they are two LBSes (they loved the term LBS, used it the rest of the night since I'd defined myself as one) and said 'he's going to try to take you back! Don't do it! you're wonderful and move on!" They were so much fun to sit with.
me 42 H 32 T 7yr M 6yr BD 5/2016 ILYBNILWY Separated 7/2016