Can I marry you?! ... I am at the point where I have resigned myself to doing all the housework.
Why? So that a few years down the road you can feel mothered and suffocated by me? Non merci!
PsySara, I hope you somehow find yourself married to a true partner in the near future. You deserve nothing less. Every mother deserves nothing less. Every woman. Every person.
BTW, look at Ruth Bader Ginsberg's op-ed piece in the NY Times today. She has some good stuff in there about marriage and the support she got from her partner, who actually ran their kitchen. That made me feel good, because I can really hold my own in the kitchen.
Me: 50, MLC/WW 45 Young kids Nov 2015: BD1 Apr 2016: BD2 Jan 2017: W filed Feb 2017: D final