I am responsible for ISIS, Trump and Hilary and global warming. Alot to shoulder :-)
Now wait a second rich, I'm fairly certain my W has blamed all of the above on me. You may be off the hook!
Originally Posted By: rich4j
She again today messed up a handoff , was late, blamed me, got in an argument in front of my duaghter so I walked away and left. I won't be bullied , pushed around or stomped on anymore by her.
Great work rich! I think in our situations that's the best we can do. Our Ws seem to want to pick fights and escalate things. Best way to de-escalate is to let them know it's not ok and walk away if needed. No need for the added stress on D or yourself.
Originally Posted By: rich4j
The positive is that my duaghter and I could not be closer...our bonding has increased and she loves being with me as I actually spend time with her...not just dump her in front of a tv like her mom :-) makes me sad
It does suck that she does that to your D, but can't control her. What you can do is keep being an amazing dad for your D and strengthen those bonds even more!
Reading how close you are with your D now gives me so much hope for my own situation. Keep being a rock for your D rich. Our kids need us while our Ws figure out what they are doing. keep up the good stuff brother!
Me39 M11 : T13 D9 BD 5/31/16 In House S until 6/21/17 Divorced 10/5/18
