Focus on Me and my Boys 8

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JK, I can't even begin to imagine the number of emotions swirling in you right now. My initial leaning would have been that mediation would lead to at least some closure, but it does not appear that it has. It seems to have only opened up more questions and uncertainty for you and your family.

We all know how amazing of a father and man you are. We all want what's best for you and your family. And it really may be that your latest plan is the best thing for everyone. However, what's the harm in slowing the decision making down? There seems to be no downside to taking a pause to catch your breath.

You now have a legal agreement in place to drive things in the short term. That agreement is your "baseline" option. There may or may not be a better way to optimize that agreement, but I'd ask have you really had a chance to truly clear your mind and thoughtfully think through all your options?

With the immediate pressure off, why not settle in a bit and make sure you're making the best decision for you and the kids. If you take some time and decide your current plan is the best, then by all means follow through with it. However, I'd bet you find a more optimal solution if you give it some time.

Regardless, know that we all care about you and are here to support you. Hang in there brother!