Hi job, thanks for the prompt reply. I agree with all you are saying above. I've really had my faith tested this week (I'm not religious at all) but do believe in M and the family unit. I think I'll just lay low for the near future and see what happens. No point in goading the monster, wonder if she will apologise this week (no expectations though!) Thanks for the tip about what to do mid spew, I'll try this the next time. Peace
M 10, T 18 M: 36, W: 35, D: 8, S: 6 EA: Oct 12 ILYBINILWY: Jan 15 BD: Aug 15 Separated: Sep 15 Miss you: Jun 16 Aug 16: Dating (!) Oct 16: Selfishness returns... currently: disgusted