Coly, Congrats on the promotion!! yay. I, too, missed signs of depression with H along the way. I guess as women, we just don't see job failures the same way. For us, they seem to just be the way it is, with a little luck thrown in to hopefully boost careers. I hope your H can seek help at some point, instead of wallowing and hiding. I always wonder though what it will be with these types that will get them out of despair mode, if anything. Your D sounds resilient and seems like she will get through this okay. I think it is good she is a teenager, as opposed to being 5. I hope you celebrate this weekend!! I am actually going to a wedding solo (H invited, not going) one of those "firsts" we have talked about. I'm all dressed up and ready to go. Have a great weekend Coly!
me 42 H 32 T 7yr M 6yr BD 5/2016 ILYBNILWY Separated 7/2016