Thanks esame. I honestly am not trying to be difficult towards h but on the same vain I can't just give in to his every demand regarding access. No one is stopping him seeing the kids apart from himself, but the last year or so he has made decisions on his own ( or with ow) without any discussion with me on how they would affect the kids and he's done it again. I am putting the kids first through this sorry mess. If I wasn't I could've cooked up a merry h@ll about them staying with him in a house with her!!
With regards to D I no idea what is going in his head with that. All I know is I will be requesting the financial form for myself and him to complete. The kids and I are entitled to far more financial assistance than he is providing.
I do love my job. It has kept me sane in all this madness and I'm good at it. Wayward husbands I can't deal with but teenagers I do o.k.
