Feyth, you did an amazing job with keeping it together during an excruciating (I'm sure) meeting.

Of course he noticed how you looked. That will be replaying in his mind when he looks back at this. I'm starting to think that the reason we are supposed to look our best, validate, and be "light and bright" whenever we see our H (even at times like this) is that they will begin to remember this version of us rather than the negative version they have fixated on. Who knows.

You are rocking this. It hurts, but you are the amazing one here. You are growing stronger and learning through this process. He is just...sad and desperate. Just keep swimming, you'll get there. Wherever there is, it will be what you want it to be and on your terms.


M-51 H-54
2D-27 and 25
M-26 yrs
Bombshell and IHS 7-29-15
He moved out 10-3-15
D filed 1-27-16
D final 10-27-16

Kindness, kindness, kindness.