HaWho I think you did great (as always) and that there isn't much else you could do. It sounds like he is processing his issues, in his own unique way, and that doesn't leave much room for a wife to help.
How are you feeling? How are you coping with all the madness?
"There's nothing sadder than a conman conning himself"
“There is freedom waiting for you, On the breezes of the sky, And you ask "What if I fall?" Oh but my darling, What if you fly?”