Detached, getting along better, but in limbo....

[Surfer]

Cherry

You are absolutely right of course I am thinking the same don't fret. I do need to move on though as I am in limbo. Married but not, in a relationship but not, getting formalised custody but not, financially independent but not, it's like I am hanging there with no control. I could move the D forward myself of course but something needs to give at some point.

Got more a formal action notice through on Ws £500 parking fine on Friday. Handed it to her when picking up the kids.

I just don't like this lack of structure to life. It's starting to really frustrate me at times. I can't move on yet can move back.

Surfer.