I have no contact with my three sisters at all, and that's just how I want it. My Mum was very ill, and after my Dad died, I had taken on and paid my Mum's mortgage and Council Tax, so that she could live in the house until she died. In return, she wrote a will that gave me the house. I had explained to my sisters that I didn't want the house, and would 'divvy' up the money when it sold, as I felt that was fair. Unfortunately, as my Mum declined, they asked to see the will, which I gave them (they were my family) and managed to get her to change it in to their favour. Whilst I could have persued through the courts (my Mum wasn't of sound mind in the end) it would have cost thousands and I had no guarantee of winning. Pure avarice and greed - I'll have no truck with that.
To me, being part of my kids life is very important to me, so, that's a happy life for me. Not being able to do that means I have to wait. I don't sit there waiting for W to call,but you have to wonder when this will end.
So, W coming over today to pick D up to take her to a birthday party,so me and S are going out and I plan to meet my nephew tomorrow.
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015
