Hi lovely V, I'm so sorry to read this and what an awful thing to discover from your wedding day. One of my D group chums also discovered her (now XH) was sexting another woman on their wedding night - awful.

Please take care of yourself - live frugally and simply for now. Eat, work, sleep and spend time with aged pa, who I'm sure will enjoy being occupied with one or two 'fixing' activities.

These are difficult times, but you will get through with the support of others. (((((Huge hugs))))) xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus