Feyth, I watch on in admiration and I'm so sorry your H decided to file. I think you will look back on that difficult conversation in years to come and feel at peace with how you handled things. I also know from all that you post, that ultimately you will be fine.

Take care of yourself in the next little period of time and keep posting xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus