Well, I got through D-Day and now I am a divorced man, single parent, and starting a new life.
Our day in court was full of sadness, tears, tenderness, and some healing connection.
It was an intense day to say the least. It's hard to see how relieved and even happy she is about it ending. But that is her experience. She is in a lot of denial about her part in things and still blames me for most of it. So be it. I believe that is the way she is coping.
In the meantime, I have a future ahead of me. And today I woke up feeling hope and excitement about that. As much as I still love her, I am moving into acceptance and looking forward to being able to detach with love.
And, of course, I have my beautiful daughters to raise and co-parent which keeps me going and growing.
