You have said it all perfectly. The winner absolutely takes it all.
We all come here and to other forums crying the blues about our spouses leaving and then discovering they are w/new partners. But, it takes time to realize that a house built on sand (lies and cheating), can't weather the storms of time. Eventually cracks will appear and the structure begins to crumble. They may attempt to patch the cracks, but let's face it, the trust in each other is not there....how can it be? Especially when they both know that they cheated on their former partners/spouses.
So, let's all raise our glasses and cheer each other on. Yes, ABBA's song lyrics say it all...the winner takes it all and we are the winners...some of us just don't know it yet...but time will reveal all to those who sit quietly and wait for the answers to be revealed.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
