I agree Sandi. I am just confused as to what to do. Legally Separating finances is definitely the best thing for me financially, as right now she would be amicable and not go after my retirement accounts or the house equity. However, it seems as though she (and some here) have given me mixed feelings on this.
Also, I know that I have asked you guys about the exposing of the affair, and you guys say no. However, I have been reading that other site and it definitely seems that they have had huge success with it. So I am definitely conflicted. If you haven't read about exposing I would strongly urge you to google it (Dr. Harley) and see what you think...it seems to have generated much success.
She looked at some apartments yesterday and they were total dumps so she is supposed to look at more today, but she hasn't told me if she has or not. She said she is looking for a 6-month lease.
Either way she will be out of town in the mountains with her sister this weekend so I am going to really try to GAL and get myself moving in a positive direction.
