Rich, the way my W is acting right now would completely make any attempt at co-parenting a farce. It worries me about how we'll interact when this is done, but maybe she'll cool down and be able to at least say hello when we physically S. Sorry you had to go through similar man. Living it right now, I know how painful it must have been.
MV, yeah, I'm expecting the S and Custody agreements to be a "bit askew" to say the least. I actually find myself wondering if we will need to rip them up and completely rewrite them. Guess we'll see when they come across.
darknes, having the kids for Fri and Sat night actually sounds like it'd be a lot of fun. You get the kids when they're unwound and not dealing w/ the stress of school/homework during the week. I do agree that not seeing my D for a full week would be miserable, both for my W and myself. I do worry about the upheaval of a more frequent schedule on D, but maybe a 3-3-4-4 would work for us as well.
Thank you all for your ideas and support. I'm not really sure how my W will act this weekend. I'm tempted to remind her that my stance on custody has not changed, but I don't think it'll make a difference in regards to what she'll give me next week for an agreement. I am going to be more assertive in house and stuff with the D though. Do what is right, regardless of how it makes W react. Working off that thought.
Me39 M11 : T13 D9 BD 5/31/16 In House S until 6/21/17 Divorced 10/5/18
