Newby here, desperate for some advice (thread 5)

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Makes me wonder if my IC is pro-divorce. Her website talks about breaking patterns that lead to unhappiness. Is that code language for pro-divorce?
Kind of felt that way when I first began meeting w/ her. But I didn't simply buy into everything she said -- I've stayed true to my feelings and values even when she was nudging me in certain directions.

JR -- I know you feel ineffective and even weak at times, but I look at how you've held on, held out, for so long, and I see unwavering core values. I respect that. Your kids will see that.