It is great that you are seeing the things that need to change!
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Why is she getting me a present at all?
Did she say it was a gift? Doesn't matter. She will do things that will keep you confused, if you try to make sense of it. She's the one who is looney-tunes, remember? Seriously, my first thought to her getting something for you is that she's buttering you up. Everything the WW does is for her benefit in some kind of way......maybe now, maybe a little later. The WW will do something that seems actually "nice"......but she's just buttering up the H for something she wants. While he's all happy that she bought him something......she'll hit him for something she wants to do, or whatever....and he feels like he can't tell her no, since she was so nice to buy him something.
You cannot trust her.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
