If he's in MLC, you aren't going to be able to rationalize w/him about anything. Why? Because he's angry at the world, himself and he thinks you are the problem as well as the marriage. This journey is a very emotional one for him and you have to remember...this is all about him and how he feels and sees the world at this time.
I'm going to search out your thread over on Newcomers and link it here for the convenience of the posters.
Keep the focus on you, watch your finances and your assets. I know it's difficult, but you can't take what he says to heart. He's in crisis and depression and they do see the one w/very dark glasses.
Last edited by job; 09/30/1609:42 AM. Reason: Added a link to another thread
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
